Ok we have discussed why you were banned, and we will not be lifting it.
We try to maintain a fair and fun atmosphere on lolnet, when you abuse other players you have to realize that they are people too.
Myself, other Owners and Admins and the Moderators are only human and NONE of us get paid. They are doing it because they are AWESOME people!
As for your ideas on how a server is run, that is completely your opinion and this is how we've chosen to run the lolnet Minecraft server, if you don't like it I would be more than happy to provide resources so that you can start up your own server and you can run it how you see fit.
The reason I'm not in game is because I am dealing with the backend of it, the boring Administrative stuff, like dealing with people spamming forums because they were banned for a good reason... When I would much rather be in game, building and creating and chatting with you guys.